The Winner is always part of the answer

The Loser is always part of the problem


The Winner is always has a program

The Loser always has an excuse


The Winner says, "Let me do it for you

The Loser says, " That is not my job."


The Winner sees an answer for every problem

The Loser sees a problem for every answer.


The Winner says, " It may be difficult but it is possible"

The Loser says, "It may be possible but it is too difficult."


When a Winner makes a mistake, he says, " I was wrong";

When a Loser makes a mistake, he says," It wasn't my fault."


A Winner makes commitments;

A Loser makes promises.


Winners have dreams;

Loser have schemes.


Winners say," I must do something";

Losers say,"Something must be done."


Winners are a part of the team;

Losers are apart from the team.


Winners see the gain;

Losers see the pain.


Winners see possibilities;

Losers see problems.


Winners believe in win/win; Losers believe for them to win someone has to lose.


Winners see the potential;

Losers see the past.


Winners are like a thermostat;

Losers are like thermometers.


Winners choose what they say;

Losers say what they choose.


Winners use hard arguments but soft words;

Losers use soft arguments but hard words.


Winners stand firm on values but compromise on petty things;

Losers stand firm on petty things but compromise on values.


Winners follow the philosophy of empathy: "Don't do to others what you

would, not want them to do to you";

Losers follow the philosophy, "Do it to others before they do it to you."


Winners make it happen;

Losers let it happen.